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Teen mum takes her one-year-old son as her date to prom

<p>A teenage mother has gone viral after she made the very sweet decision to take her one-year-old son to her prom as her date.</p> <p>Melissa McCabe, 16, was unable to find a babysitter to look after her son, Arthur, on the night of her senior prom. </p> <p>So instead, she shared a video to TikTok of her and Arthur dressed in their finest outfits to attend the dance together. </p> <p>She captioned the video, "Everyone going to prom with their boyfriend whereas I took my biggest blessing."</p> <div class="embed" style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline: none !important;"><iframe class="embedly-embed" style="border-width: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-left: 0px; box-sizing: inherit; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; width: 610px; max-width: 100%; outline: none !important;" title="tiktok embed" src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?src=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Fembed%2Fv2%2F7115346713434410246&amp;display_name=tiktok&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40melissaabby14%2Fvideo%2F7115346713434410246%3Fis_copy_url%3D1%26is_from_webapp%3Dv1%26refer%3Dembed%26referer_url%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.dailymail.co.uk%252F%26referer_url%3Dhttps%253A%252F%252Fwww.dailymail.co.uk%252Ffemail%252Farticle-11008771%252FTeenage-mother-takes-toddler-prom-date.html%26referer_video_id%3D7115346713434410246&amp;key=59e3ae3acaa649a5a98672932445e203&amp;type=text%2Fhtml&amp;schema=tiktok" width="340" height="700" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></div> <div class="embed" style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline: none !important;"> </div> <div class="embed" style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline: none !important;">The video, which has racked up over 1.6 million views, has been inundated with positive comments from social media users who praised Melissa for being the "best mother" and called Arthur "the cutest".</div> <p>Despite the influx of supportive comments, not all the messages Melissa received through pregnancy and motherhood have been so positive. </p> <p>She told the <a href="https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/liverpool-news/teen-mum-who-took-toddler-24472549" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">Liverpool Echo,</a> "When I found out I was pregnant obviously I was really young. It was hard because everyone told me I was ruining my life and I wasn’t going to get my GCSEs. So many people make comments when I’m out with him."</p> <p>"Often people think he’s my little brother and when I tell them he’s mine their attitude completely changes. Older people especially find it disgusting because obviously their way was to get married first and then have kids."</p> <p>Melissa, who has finished her GCSEs and will be starting college to study heath and social care, wants to break the stigma of teenage pregnancies and being a young single mother. </p> <p><em>Image credits: TikTok</em></p>

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Why you need to walk more and sit less

<p><strong><em>Professor Marita McCabe is the Director of the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://iha.acu.edu.au/" target="_blank">Institute for Health and Ageing</a></span> at Australian Catholic University.</em></strong></p> <p>You have probably heard all about dangers of sitting too much and how we need to be more active. However, if you thought that this advice only applies to office workers, then think again.</p> <p>We now spend more than half of our waking hours sitting, mostly thanks to our increasing reliance on technology. This largely sedentary routine, so common to us all, can have a terrible effect on our health. </p> <p>Too much sitting has been linked to health problems such as poor nutrition, obesity and increased risk of disease such as diabetes and heart disease. It can be particularly dangerous for older people who may be less mobile or recovering from illness.</p> <p>According to The Heart Foundation, the average person spends around 15 hours a day sitting. This might sound a lot but it is very easy to do – just think how much time you spend each day driving, watching TV, reading, eating meals, catching up with friends or using your computer. </p> <p>The good news is that sitting less can help improve your overall health. In 2010, researchers found that adults who sit less have a lower risk of early death – particularly cardiovascular disease.</p> <p>There is much you can do to reduce your risk of health problems by firstly being aware of how much time you spend sitting and then thinking about ways to move more throughout your day. </p> <p>When thinking about how to improve your general activity levels, a good place to start is with a minimum of 30 minutes of moderate physical activity a day. This might mean a brisk walk, a swim, a game of bowls or some vigorous activity at home – cleaning or gardening.</p> <p>If you add in extra incidental activity to this base, then you will improve both your physical mental health and wellbeing.</p> <p>An easy way to start being more active is to simply move at home. Break up the time you spend sitting when watching TV or reading by getting up and walking around every 30 minutes.  Regularly change posture, move your arms and legs and stretch. Stand up to take phone calls and do chores such as ironing and folding clothes when you are watching TV. If you spend a lot of time at your home computer, get up regularly. You could also investigate a standing desk.</p> <p>When you need to travel, don’t take the car on unnecessary trips. Consider walking to and from shorter destinations instead or use public transport and get off a stop earlier. If you need to take the car, park further away from your destination and walk to it.</p> <p>Once you start to feel the benefits of increased activity, you might think about joining a fitness or walking group – exercising in a group can be a good way of meeting new people as well building up your fitness and activity levels.</p> <p>If you haven’t exercised for a while or are recovering from illness or injury, check in with your GP or physiotherapist first. They can advise you on the best way to move back to activity, perhaps with a home exercise program or specialist exercise class.</p> <p>How do you get off the couch and moving around? Let us know your preferred way to stay active in the comments below.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/health/body/2016/08/should-you-exercise-when-you-are-sick/"><em><strong> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Should you exercise when you’re sick?</span></strong></em></a></p> <p><a href="/finance/insurance/2016/08/10-more-unhealthy-habits-you-have-to-cut-out-now/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">10 more unhealthy habits you have to cut out now</span></strong></em></a></p> <p><a href="/health/body/2016/08/yoga-exercises-to-strengthen-and-soothe-eye-muscles/"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Yoga exercises to strengthen and soothe eye muscles</span></em></strong></a></p>

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Older people suffer body image issues too

<p><em><strong>Professor Marita McCabe is the Director of the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://iha.acu.edu.au/" target="_blank">Institute for Health and Ageing</a></span> at Australian Catholic University.</strong></em></p> <p><img width="219" height="137" src="http://iha.acu.edu.au/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2015/03/Professor-Marita-McCabe_IHA1.jpg" alt="Image for Professor Marita McCabe" style="float: left;"/></p> <p>There is no escape from the dramatic physical changes that arrive with ageing. Even the most confident soul may have pause for thought as wrinkles materialise, weight appears in new places and they suddenly notice they have become invisible to anyone under the age of 60.</p> <p>Concerns about body image can be particularly prevalent throughout adolescence and young adulthood. But they can also be relevant for older people whose bodies no longer conform to the ideal standard of youth and beauty.</p> <p>Of course, some may feel comfortable with their bodies and can embrace the changes that ageing brings. However, some people, especially women, may feel distressed by these changes and may go on to develop problems such as sexual dysfunction or eating disorders.</p> <p>Although we usually think of eating disorders as something that only affect young people, older people who feel dissatisfied with their body image may be at risk because there are some unique stressors in later life that may point them towards eating disorders. Such stressors include a previous history of disordered eating, loss and bereavement, changes in family structures and the stress of retirement.</p> <p>Both men and women can experience poor body image. However, the menopause is a key factor for women, as they experience changes to skin tone and fat distribution, weight gain and a loss of sexual desire.</p> <p>It doesn’t help that western society generally holds a negative view of older people’s bodies, seeing them as decrepit, irrelevant, useless and asexual. In turn, this may encourage older people to internalise these views and to see their bodies in a negative light. </p> <p>It’s important to remember that if you are experiencing concerns around body image, it is nothing to be ashamed of. It is completely normal and help is readily available. </p> <p>In the first instance, your GP will be able to give you information and guide you towards the right support and treatment. </p> <p>Alongside providing practical professional and medical support for those experiencing poor body image, we urgently need to address society’s preoccupation with youth, beauty and thinness. We need to celebrate ageing and find new ways of valuing the wisdom and rich experience that it brings.</p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/06/why-is-getting-older-treated-as-something-we-should-fix/">Why is getting older treated as something we should fix?</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/05/tips-to-learn-not-to-sweat-the-small-stuff/">From going grey to a changing body, how I learnt not to sweat the small stuff</a></strong></em></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="/lifestyle/beauty-style/2016/05/granny-models-by-eli-driu-for-never-alone-association/">Grannies become models to prove beauty has no limits</a></strong></em></span></p>

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